Baba Himali Preaches the world... ;)

When Baba Himali logs onto her home computer..late in the night..to check her gexpro mails..anticipating work mails for the next day...she gets none..but she still waits for some time...
what to do all this time other than refreshing webmail after every 5 minutes and hoping to see a new mail waiting in the inbox...she gets philosophical and ponders over rules that she lives by...
now where the hell to find audience at 1 in the morning so she opens her blog and preaches world (read one or two poor emotionally blackmailed colleagues...) about how to live a nearly sainty not senty life.. (pun intended!! even if you dont get it)...

so here is to how i i.e. baba himali survives... ;)

** take life with a pinch of salt...including what others have to say about you, your life, your decisions, your choices, your attitude..everything thats essentially yours..

** Not everyone out there is to get you. there were people who loved you for what you were..there are people who love you for what you have maintained of you...and there will be people who will love you for what you will choose to become.

** Never ask anybody not to expect anything out of you..try and fulfill as many expectations of as many people as you can...without expecting anything in return.
The moment you recount things that you did for them..you have lost it.
You can NOT win people over by making them feel guilty...they will know what you did and why you did...and if they dont..then let it be..

** Every time when somebody hurts you and you want to hurt back, close your eyes and recall one time when they gave you immense joy.
Everytime when someone brings you to tears, close your eyes and recall one time when they made you laugh so hard that you actually cried laughing.
Everytime when somebody is being mean and selfish and you want to give it back to them, close your eyes and recall one time when they did something selflessly and you couldnt even say thank you out of gratitude...
Everytime you feel like slapping someone out of anger, close your eyes and recall one moment when their touch spread warmth all over your soul...
Everytime you think you can let someone go off your life, close your eyes and recall one moment when every fiber of your soul yearned to have them with you...

And if you cant recall that one moment when you close your eyes...understand its Over..and let it go...if its meant for you, it will come back to you...if its not, then think you are meant for better and bigger things.. ;)

** Patience and faith make lot of things easier. Its like a circle...Faith is what makes you patient and patience marks your faith...the moment you start feeling impatient about someone (or about yourself) check your faith-o-meter...chances are more that the needle will show you decline...boost it up to the maximum and you can patiently wait some more....

** Think before you speak...words can hurt people sharply...and you cant even see the blood!!!

**Be persistent even if world calls you a loser... when you see a tamed rock in riverbank its not the force of the water that makes it so...its the flow... :)

** and Finally...never follow other's rules...make your own..even if you break them..there is noone to punish you.. ;P